Why cant you guys see that tipping is mostly what we count on, for the rate you pay we have to give the house half, then we have to tip the phone girl $10.00 for each hour and $5.00 for each half hour we do, then we have to tip security, then theres the house fee, which can be anywhere between $5.00 to $10.00 every two sesions, then we have to buy condoms, k-y jelly, douhes, doctors visits and transportation. before call girls, escorts and hookers used to live the high life now we can barely sell ourselves, its really disheartening, i dont know what else to do, and i am a very attractive and intelligent young woman, so please if you have a good time pleeeeease tip, at least $50.00, and dont ever, EVER ask fo a discount because then we will not want to have a session with you because if you are asking for a discount what are the chances your going to leave a tip? and dont say "oh baby, if you give me a good session, ill give you a good tip" this is very annoying because i have given excellent sessions and gotten a$20.00 tip, so the best tip im giving you guys is "tip a good tip at the beginning of your session and not only will you get a great session but word will get around and when you next visit all the girls are going to be praying you pick them". thankyou. Cory
Tipping Is Appreciated!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Here is a Tip...
Dont expect a tip and you will be very pleased when you do get one.
Dont get me wrong. I love to be tipped. Being an indie I like tips in the form of cash, who wouldn't, or a gift certificate.
If the session was over the time we had scheduled, I think a tip is approriate. If you had a great time with me and want to show me that you appreciate my effort, tip me.
But why tip me before? I havent given a service yet. I dont tip my waitress before she serves my food.
Dont expect a tip and you will be very pleased when you do get one.
Dont get me wrong. I love to be tipped. Being an indie I like tips in the form of cash, who wouldn't, or a gift certificate.
If the session was over the time we had scheduled, I think a tip is approriate. If you had a great time with me and want to show me that you appreciate my effort, tip me.
But why tip me before? I havent given a service yet. I dont tip my waitress before she serves my food.
Talula
I'll be the first to tell you this, but i doubt the first to feel like this......you're not coming off very well in your posts, and it's the attitude as much as the messages. Not a good thing when you're "selling" yourself. Before you respond, please take a moment to think about whether what i'm saying has some truth to it.
I'll be the first to tell you this, but i doubt the first to feel like this......you're not coming off very well in your posts, and it's the attitude as much as the messages. Not a good thing when you're "selling" yourself. Before you respond, please take a moment to think about whether what i'm saying has some truth to it.
give her a break. she just got here and only voiced her opinion. she offered you guys some advice. you don't have to take it or get too defensive over it. and you can't say it's wrong because we all know that in some places a good tip in advance (or after for return visits) makes a world of difference.
i didn't say all.... i said some. and in my opinion... a girl who's up front about a tip making a difference in service is at least being honest about it. she will however have to back up her words.
btw..... this girl is totally smokin so i'm gonna cut her some slack. So I’m shallow.
i didn't say all.... i said some. and in my opinion... a girl who's up front about a tip making a difference in service is at least being honest about it. she will however have to back up her words.
btw..... this girl is totally smokin so i'm gonna cut her some slack. So I’m shallow.
I know.....i didn't jump down her throat or anything, just let her know i felt she was coming off a bit rough. Guys know they should tip if they get good service (tipping beforehand is for the birds, imo), so i think she's preaching to the choir in this case cuz the guys who don't tip/tip well know exactly what they're doing, it's just their choice.
btw..... this girl is totally smokin so i'm gonna cut her some slack. So I’m shallow. [/QUOTE]
Something tells me so is she.
btw..... this girl is totally smokin so i'm gonna cut her some slack. So I’m shallow. [/QUOTE]
Something tells me so is she.
Oh ok so...
If you are smokin you are off limits? Because she is smokin its ok for her to say tip me now and tip me well??
So let me get this straight. Gorgeous girls can do whatever they want and get away with it, ugly girls can't?
So if she was say fat and ugly like myself she would be told off and put in her place!
Unreal..
If you are smokin you are off limits? Because she is smokin its ok for her to say tip me now and tip me well??
So let me get this straight. Gorgeous girls can do whatever they want and get away with it, ugly girls can't?
So if she was say fat and ugly like myself she would be told off and put in her place!
Unreal..
kimmie....
didn't you ever see those news segments or oprah when they take a hot girl and put her in a fat suit and watch the difference in guys reactions. how when she's hot guys help her with packages and open doors? but they slam those same doors on her face and dont ever offer help when she's a fat ugly chick. let me let every woman on the planet in on a secreat right now....... ALL MEN ARE FUCKING SHALLOW! especially those who pay for sex.
now back on topic..... i've never ripped someone for offering me advice, whether it's correct or not or whether i take it or not. so fat, ugly, stupid... whatever...... in this case it makes no difference to me.
i just might not have defended her if she were fat and ugly (like you).
like i said... i'm shallow and proud to admit it.
didn't you ever see those news segments or oprah when they take a hot girl and put her in a fat suit and watch the difference in guys reactions. how when she's hot guys help her with packages and open doors? but they slam those same doors on her face and dont ever offer help when she's a fat ugly chick. let me let every woman on the planet in on a secreat right now....... ALL MEN ARE FUCKING SHALLOW! especially those who pay for sex.
now back on topic..... i've never ripped someone for offering me advice, whether it's correct or not or whether i take it or not. so fat, ugly, stupid... whatever...... in this case it makes no difference to me.
i just might not have defended her if she were fat and ugly (like you).
like i said... i'm shallow and proud to admit it.
Its not like I know nothinga bout this business. I assume that is the case for many of the long term johns who have business backgrounds now, but came up the way I did. [maybe there aren't all that many of us, come to think of it] There are various tip outs but I don't know of a single house that does all of the above you mention. If you are working at one you certainly should find a better place to work.
If you are as attractive as you state certainly April would be glad to hear from you. I know she runs a business where, if you know what you are doing, you certainly can profit well.
I don't know the exact lay out of Kevin's business, or Paul's, on the NJ side of the river, but I hear their girls fair decently. Or, you might consider going independent.
My over all point is, a tip is supposed to be AFTER a service is rendered. Traditionally it is a bonus to reward service above and beyond a particular standard. What a lot of people are trying to do, yourself included, is to turn it into a guarantee of the performance of a standard, not the reward for going above the standard it was intended to be.
Those that know me know that when a tip is the proper thing to do I tip well, when the service provided me met or exceeded the standard that was expected. I don't plan on deviating from that practice. I doubt many others feel much differently then I.
I don't mean to sound bursque, but I think you thought you were stating that it is a good idea to tip in advance to achieve a better then standard session. Instead, what you stated [at least to my way of thinking], is that with you I need to tip to insure a standard session. Why do more then that if you already have my cash in your hand... where is my leverage and your insentive once I've already tipped?
See?
Anyway, just my two cents.
If you are as attractive as you state certainly April would be glad to hear from you. I know she runs a business where, if you know what you are doing, you certainly can profit well.
I don't know the exact lay out of Kevin's business, or Paul's, on the NJ side of the river, but I hear their girls fair decently. Or, you might consider going independent.
My over all point is, a tip is supposed to be AFTER a service is rendered. Traditionally it is a bonus to reward service above and beyond a particular standard. What a lot of people are trying to do, yourself included, is to turn it into a guarantee of the performance of a standard, not the reward for going above the standard it was intended to be.
Those that know me know that when a tip is the proper thing to do I tip well, when the service provided me met or exceeded the standard that was expected. I don't plan on deviating from that practice. I doubt many others feel much differently then I.
I don't mean to sound bursque, but I think you thought you were stating that it is a good idea to tip in advance to achieve a better then standard session. Instead, what you stated [at least to my way of thinking], is that with you I need to tip to insure a standard session. Why do more then that if you already have my cash in your hand... where is my leverage and your insentive once I've already tipped?
See?
Anyway, just my two cents.
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