I dont know about that, CL BP all the same, its the the same fucking lowlifes. Besides thats completely missing the point of me sharing my near life ruining experience. I was not looking for a bang, i was looking for a private yoga lesson and all hell broke loose and i damm nearly ended my career, marriage, and life. Thank god i managed to get out of there.
Worst Nightmare - Yoga instructor set me up, lock out naked, roughed up by black guy, cops invovled
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Stockbroker, I don't understand why you would waste your time with CL and yoga. Don't you realize that men with the proclivity to expose themselves are living in the best of times. All you need to do is enter any ladies restroom or women's locker room, do your thing and if anyone objects just say you identify as a female. If you want to be extra cautious carry some lipstick and ladies garments in your briefcase and do a quick change before the police arrive. If they arrest you, just contact the ACLU which takes pride in destroying the fabric of our nation and they will be glad to sue on your behalf.
From info I've read about Elegant Ties, their sessions basically consist of a lap dance followed by hand release. Definitely not GFE by any means. Which means that you probably could work out a flashing scenario into there.
Alternately, you might want to try out one of the S&M ladies to stage a scene where they let you flash on them. Several of these mistresses have been reviewed on UG. You could have one of them accompany you to the NYC Transit Museum, where you could flash her on one of the old-time subway cars and then duck into a private corner to complete the act. You could even dress up in period costumes.
Alternately, you might want to try out one of the S&M ladies to stage a scene where they let you flash on them. Several of these mistresses have been reviewed on UG. You could have one of them accompany you to the NYC Transit Museum, where you could flash her on one of the old-time subway cars and then duck into a private corner to complete the act. You could even dress up in period costumes.
Its a really niche fetish. More along the lines of cfnm. Theres a forum aptly named dickflash.com that im on. Heads up, theres a lot of wackos there. But for the most part. We get a kick out of being naked in front of women. Whether its humilation, cock shock, or mutual gratification, that's generally the MO.
I came upon utopia guide years ago, when i discovered Carolines/CiCi around my neighborhood. But i just didnt enjoy fucking a whore that expects u to fuck her and leave, just felt kind of empty. I got into european rub n tugs for a while but it got expensive and eventually boring. So thats how i gravitated to real world settings, blurring the boundaries of normal daily activities with dickflashing and exhibitionism such as nude art modeling, brazilian waxing, etc.
Anyways, its been 4 days since the event and i keep replaying it over and over and thinking what i could have and should have done differently, and how much worse it could have ended. today was the first day back there (i work around there) and when it came time for lunch I felt very paranoid and skittish internally. I am sure it will fade, but man traumatic experience to say the least.
I came upon utopia guide years ago, when i discovered Carolines/CiCi around my neighborhood. But i just didnt enjoy fucking a whore that expects u to fuck her and leave, just felt kind of empty. I got into european rub n tugs for a while but it got expensive and eventually boring. So thats how i gravitated to real world settings, blurring the boundaries of normal daily activities with dickflashing and exhibitionism such as nude art modeling, brazilian waxing, etc.
Anyways, its been 4 days since the event and i keep replaying it over and over and thinking what i could have and should have done differently, and how much worse it could have ended. today was the first day back there (i work around there) and when it came time for lunch I felt very paranoid and skittish internally. I am sure it will fade, but man traumatic experience to say the least.
Stockbroker
Thanks for sharing this with us, but do your self a big favor. Read the threads in this forum http://utopiaguide.com/forums/forums/newbie-forum.69/
The poster who i quoted above and many others have great advice on how to limit your risk and loss in situations like that.
A couple things that i can point out are pretty much standard and that i've learned from here:
Carry only as much money as you would need for the session or appointment, if you do get robbed your loss is limited to that and makes it easier to leave.
Leave the CC and wallet in the car, have only your ID on you.
Leave the keys in the car if possible i.e if you have key-less entry or carry only one key that can open the door. If you don't have key-less entry use a magnetic hide away key and bring a single key with you. Leave the key fob, or alarm remote in the car ( I'm pretty sure genius said this) The last thing you want is a thief walking around the parking lot with your key fob and finding your car.
Use a throw away phone!
Now in your case i'd also keep a gym bag with extra set of cloths and footwear.
The way i look at it is this, nothing is worth your life. If you keep your loss to a minimum its a lot easier to walk away and live another day.
Thanks for sharing this with us, but do your self a big favor. Read the threads in this forum http://utopiaguide.com/forums/forums/newbie-forum.69/
The poster who i quoted above and many others have great advice on how to limit your risk and loss in situations like that.
A couple things that i can point out are pretty much standard and that i've learned from here:
Carry only as much money as you would need for the session or appointment, if you do get robbed your loss is limited to that and makes it easier to leave.
Leave the CC and wallet in the car, have only your ID on you.
Leave the keys in the car if possible i.e if you have key-less entry or carry only one key that can open the door. If you don't have key-less entry use a magnetic hide away key and bring a single key with you. Leave the key fob, or alarm remote in the car ( I'm pretty sure genius said this) The last thing you want is a thief walking around the parking lot with your key fob and finding your car.
Use a throw away phone!
Now in your case i'd also keep a gym bag with extra set of cloths and footwear.
The way i look at it is this, nothing is worth your life. If you keep your loss to a minimum its a lot easier to walk away and live another day.
Thanks biohazard. To be honest, ive only gone to whore houses or hired hookers maybe 3 or 4 times in my short career as a monger. And for those times I do my best to take extra precautions. I just never in my wildest dreams thought trying to perve out (but not sex) in a private yoga class can turn into life threatening, potentially all-humiliating horrific shake down. But yes, i guess you truly never know. I'll definitely brush up on the newbie forums. And will always carry my mace with me.
Is Mace legal in NYS? The original was tear gas (CN -not legal I think) but I think the Mace you can get today is oleoresin capsicum (OC - chemical from peppers). The "triple action" Mace does have tear gas in it (CN, OC and an ultraviolet marker dye.) I bought my pepper spray many years ago from a sporting good store and only carry it when jogging for use against dogs. For that purpose I don't care if it is legal or not but for mongering, if illegal, would violate genius's "only break one law at a time" rule.
Yea man i kept telling myself this can not be happening this is a dream over and over. But unfortunately you cant make this stuff up, it happened and it happened to me. Thank god i am ok and no body at work or my wife knows about that Friday afternoon.
Lesson learned, only shady girls would live/work in a shady place and would do shady things. Never again man.
Lesson learned, only shady girls would live/work in a shady place and would do shady things. Never again man.
i got say i ran into some a Ahole on the lirr years back as I was getting up for my stop and saw this fairly young 18 ish gal
across the isle but in full view of this "creep" with his junk out
and she had a look of desperate fear,"frozen".Maybe fearing being raped..
kudos to this post
i wanted to punch him in his face and stomp his junk just to get a message across but i didnt want to deal with legal issues or being arrested if i did so.
so there you have a young gal scarred and secondly do you want to see man batter on your ride to work..really is it worth it???
across the isle but in full view of this "creep" with his junk out
and she had a look of desperate fear,"frozen".Maybe fearing being raped..
kudos to this post
i wanted to punch him in his face and stomp his junk just to get a message across but i didnt want to deal with legal issues or being arrested if i did so.
so there you have a young gal scarred and secondly do you want to see man batter on your ride to work..really is it worth it???
Sorry, didn't mean to create duplicate threads. As you can imagine my heads not on right lately much less after their threat to post the video of my naked self for all my friends & fam to see.
I figured from the great advicefrom u guys that this is highly likely just an attempted to shake me down for money. Who else uses the words friends n family. Someone who wants to test ur shame and embarassment threshold. If it was that much an issue it would have been turned over to the popo. Since they got my name from when they stole my CC it would be easy to tract. But i can say it was a set up and also ur not suppose to post on CL if u arent over 18. Anyways, I'm gong to take deep breaths and clear my mind and try to shake this off. Thanks everyone
I figured from the great advicefrom u guys that this is highly likely just an attempted to shake me down for money. Who else uses the words friends n family. Someone who wants to test ur shame and embarassment threshold. If it was that much an issue it would have been turned over to the popo. Since they got my name from when they stole my CC it would be easy to tract. But i can say it was a set up and also ur not suppose to post on CL if u arent over 18. Anyways, I'm gong to take deep breaths and clear my mind and try to shake this off. Thanks everyone
Some post I'm on the fence here unless you discussed more then yoga then I feel for you
If only yoga was discussed and
If you went in there and freaked her out by being naked and standing at attention I probably would of thrown your ass out on the street and your clothes to. No different then a flasher here but you took it to the next level
Scary stuff all around
If only yoga was discussed and
If you went in there and freaked her out by being naked and standing at attention I probably would of thrown your ass out on the street and your clothes to. No different then a flasher here but you took it to the next level
Scary stuff all around
I went for yoga, asked to change. Its a studio, no private rooms. Where else do i change. The second time i said i didnt bring anything except a towel, and she said ok just come.
I admit im an exhibitionist, but if the girl is uncomfortable or asks me to knock it off, then of course i will no questions asked. But she never did she just unleashed big black on me and all hell broke loose.
I admit im an exhibitionist, but if the girl is uncomfortable or asks me to knock it off, then of course i will no questions asked. But she never did she just unleashed big black on me and all hell broke loose.