Based upon the above discussion, I read all of the Don Quixote trials and tribulations... wow.. you are luck y to have gotten out in one piece...even if you left a little piece of your heart w that woman...and maybe she gave you a bit also.. despite the lies and deciet... I am an optimist..
Superwoman, your Q is so intriguing... I have always found you alluring and attractive, and yet I have litlle info beyond your writings here, your outlook, your maturity, sense of humor... these are things that attract me... at 50, i think I am more than what Erica Jong called the "zipless fuck"... two people meet on a train, they do not even know eachothers name.... and they fuck... and depart separate ways...to me that is a Road Stop...or as you so aptly put it, a stop on the road...
For me.. if I were going to chose anyone on this board to "stop on a road" with, it would be you.. but not b/c of your anatomy... but b/c who you are... I had communicated with another person on this board with the renewed hope that my marraige would get batter, but also with the realistic sense that maybe I would venture into these dark waters... and as the communication progressed, we became more friendly than anything else.. I am not sure she would even see me if i had asked her... I am a lawyer, and had helped in some ways... and I guess even for me, that relationship, being a lawyer, a friend, and one who is trusted means more to me than sex... so.. maybe I have to keep you at arms length, and not develop any relationship.. or none so close as to gain my trust, so that I will not feel as if I have betrayed it by hiring you .... make any sense?
does that answer your Q at all? have I made any sense...
NYTab